How To Deal With Life Issues.

Have you ever walked around like roaming aimlessly and you're kinda under the weather because you have all these pests in your life called problems? It must have been annoying dan kau rasa macam nak mati when this kind of day hit you right? People get bad moods and I'd say it's a course of nature in any human beings to suddenly feel sad. Feelings and emotions are as potent as our blood inside the body. However, when we speak of sadness or any emotions right, they almost always stem from something or someone and we sometimes are just oblivious of these source of our emotions. Let's give a situation as an example.

You just broke up with your boyfriend and you feel like shits, and from that point on everything seems wrong to you especially your self.

When this occur, my question is what do we focus on more exactly? The problem or the solution. So here is my personal take on How To Deal With Life Issues.

Many tend to focus on the problem more than the solution where they start doing stupid things like ranting on twitter, facebook, other people et cetera (such as myself HAHA). Little that we know that we hold the power to actually change the situation and turn the table to our favour.

From the situation above, I can give several examples of how we tend to focus on the problems more than the solutions.

"Hmmm dia dah tak nak aku, mesti dah jumpa someone better (stalking mode)"
"Hmmm aku ni bodoh, hodoh, amenda doh aku ni"
"Weh kau tau what that ungrateful son of a bitch had done to me?!"
 
Above are the examples of how people focus more on the problem rather than the solutions, and I am pretty sure many of you girl nor boys can relate. Girls can be more dramatic while the boys usually share this very intimate plot of their life with only those dear to them.

But we never actually look at the solutions where ultimately it's within our control. We stress out and exhaust our mind and soul from blaming ourselves, blaming other people, blaming the world, and blaming whatever shit we can blame. This ladies and gentlemen is what happens when we focus on the details rather than the main idea.
And what is the main idea? Kau, aku, kita, ana, enta, vous, awak, kamu ! Yes YOU!

"The reason why happiness seems to be so expensive is when you devote all your attentions and invest all your feelings, emotions, energy and everything else on everything or everyone but yourself"

I may sound like the professor of individualism a.k.a selfishness but at times kita memang kena jual ikan (I'm trying to be cheesy, get it?) because we need to value ourselves above everything else if we want to survive. Happiness is cheap, as cheap as bebola ketam pasar malam, as cheap as bantal daiso, as cheap as nasi lemak seriggit and if you're good at bargaining with yourself, it can be as cheap as FREE! YES FREE!

Because you Sir are the economist, the minister, the king, and the God of your own happiness. You set the price, you set the laws, you bestow the sovereignty of your happiness, you create your own happiness and it must come from you.

So ladies and gentlemen, be grateful, focus on things that matter to you, especially yourself! Make yourself proud of you! Make it simple! Smiles and count your blessings and remember to focus on the solution. 

Consequently,